tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14175796.post3913748394063529628..comments2023-10-25T02:11:54.981-07:00Comments on Searching For Sophie: Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17310806020847827430noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14175796.post-32227032486216444912007-10-22T18:24:00.000-07:002007-10-22T18:24:00.000-07:00Hi Kerry. Wow, I had no idea you still followed m...Hi Kerry. Wow, I had no idea you still followed my blog. I guess the comment that I made about you dropping out being your loss could come across as bitter, but I didn't really think of it like that when I wrote it. But I could see how it came across that way. You didn't just drop out of the group, you kind of fell off of the face of the earth. You even stopped responding to my e-mails. It felt like you had gotten what you needed from the group, and as soon as you acheived pregnancy, you didn't need us anymore. It seemed rather selfish at the time. I joined that group because I wanted to make connections with other women that would continue on throughout parenting(as I have with both Jenny and Lynn). To be honest, aside from the comment yesterday, I don't think about you all that much and I don't hold any bitterness toward you. I wish you well, as I did when you were in the group. Sorry if that comment came across as bitter. I hope you and your little boy are doing well. Take care.Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17310806020847827430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14175796.post-14678903189023032902007-10-22T14:18:00.000-07:002007-10-22T14:18:00.000-07:00Hi Michelle, it's Kerry (the "dropout" for the res...Hi Michelle, it's Kerry (the "dropout" for the rest of you reading). I'm really sorry that you still seem to have some bitterness at my decision to leave the group. I did not intend to hurt anyone's feelings; I was only following my own heart. I think you need to remember that not all people experiencing infertility react the same way to every situation. Please remember that I suffered through 4 miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy that left me unable to get pregnant except through ivf. When I finally got pregnant after 3 rounds of ivf, I made the decision to leave the group. I did so because it was very uncomfortable for me to be pregnant while the rest of you were still struggling. I felt guilty and questioned why me and not the rest of you. I am incredibly happy for both Jenny and Lynne (as I have personally let them know), and I look forward to the day that I read about Sophie's homecoming on your blog. Good luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com