tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14175796.post5844102597789277916..comments2023-10-25T02:11:54.981-07:00Comments on Searching For Sophie: Rise Above ItMichellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17310806020847827430noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14175796.post-37686916258839558292012-03-30T17:44:19.812-07:002012-03-30T17:44:19.812-07:00Michelle,
Your words could have been my words. W...Michelle, <br /><br />Your words could have been my words. We're cut from the same cloth, the deep thinkers and feelers. We are sensitive and creative souls and hurt goes with our personality types. I have the same problem letting things go.<br /><br />Time and therapy has helped me. I have a wonderful husband that supports me too. I can tell you do too.<br /><br />Wish I had the right answers, I admire and respect you for being so honest!<br /><br />hugs,<br />GailGailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05873027475268868308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14175796.post-2053202082714471322012-03-29T13:35:29.957-07:002012-03-29T13:35:29.957-07:00oh Michelle, I have the same problem. I wish we co...oh Michelle, I have the same problem. I wish we could have coffee! I want so much to rise above things and I try and try. Even when I take a stand about an issue I am constantly questioning myself. I am my own worst enemy. <br /><br />you know how much I love the fact that you put yourself out here. You are very courageous! <br /><br />lea<br />xoNumber 6 and no more counting!https://www.blogger.com/profile/12344713441793706790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14175796.post-29029295696379366022012-03-27T15:12:43.549-07:002012-03-27T15:12:43.549-07:00I have had the exact same problem within the last ...I have had the exact same problem within the last 2 years. I was friends with this woman for over 15 years. I listened when she went through MANY and MULTIPLE life events, including deaths. When she calls, I made sure to call her back when I knew I had an hour to talk. So, when I have a crisis that sends me right over the edge, I called to confirm with her that we were still keeping our regular coffee meeting in a couple of days. When she asked if everything was okay and I started crying, she told me to call her when I had time to pull myself together and felt better. That was the end for me. Many times, I've wanted to write her a letter and tell her what I think but I realize there is nothing to be gained by it. She lost a good friend in me. Hang in there, and try to let it go. As long as you are upset, that person still has a hold on you and just isn't worth it. You know the kind of person you are.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01732297931614856540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14175796.post-22914045599791711912012-03-27T14:56:45.727-07:002012-03-27T14:56:45.727-07:00I too have the same problem Michelle. Except that ...I too have the same problem Michelle. Except that I tend to beat myself, and actually make an argument as to why I deserve whatever slight has been hurled my way. After all, if my own mother abandoned me, what does that say about my lack of worth? Wish I could help make it better for you.2china4Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12803722404544035782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14175796.post-80128500511773842842012-03-27T12:54:01.487-07:002012-03-27T12:54:01.487-07:00One word- Therapy.
Lots of it. Heal thyself.One word- Therapy. <br /><br />Lots of it. Heal thyself.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16626907321350290247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14175796.post-15493305586757398322012-03-27T06:21:57.075-07:002012-03-27T06:21:57.075-07:00I have this problem EXACTLY but I don't have a...I have this problem EXACTLY but I don't have any words of wisdom. I too wish I could learn to let go.The Red Thread Connectionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15316616381014055216noreply@blogger.com